Sunday, January 31, 2010

Moms Who Spank Daughters My Daughter's Friend's Mom Spanked My Daughter!!!?

My daughter's friend's mom spanked my daughter!!!? - moms who spank daughters

Every day after school, playing my 6-year-old daughter with friends one day. The mother is a good friend of mine and I know from our childhood.

Today when my daughter came home, told me today (I will translate.) Friend of my daughter has a little brother played in front of her litter. A friend of my daughter (Nadia) came and said to play the girl. His brother said no, Nadia started throwing sand on his head. My daughter has joined and won in his eyes.

When you are finished, his brother was crying and screaming and ran home. He told his mother what had happened, and she screamed out the window next to the girls sat and conferences. Then he sat down on the sofa, as Nadia in her lap and she is ten times better than me, then did the same with my daughter.

What should I do?

22 comments:

olschool... said...

It is clear that your friend does not know that the authority or how little she had. It is obvious that his daughter is a crime that can whip, had been committed, and not sound like it, if it is misused. However, as you do not want anyone else spanking my children, but Mom or Dad.

I wish I had a discussion and explain to his friends that under no circumstances, for this kind of punishment for her daughter use or always speak first, you or your spouse.

batzy_ba... said...

I do not think it was nice that someone struck her daughter, even if it is a childhood friend, has no right, "I believe you and have a chat and was to be called immediately when her daughter was behaving deal with him and his son, conference

Ms Know It All said...

It is wrong to spank someone else's child. The conference was well deserved, but the shots are not online.

Do not take your child again, until you have had a serious talk with his mother, and make sure that the whole story.

Tell your daughter, the mother of his friend not to spank, but what makes the child was very ill.

aimeeme_... said...

Talk to him and tell him that you do not agree with how the disciplines. If you explain how you feel and friends, you can work on something. But it should not be angry that we never said the discipline was clever, and his friend was at present responsible for them. I discipline the children by my friend in the same way I think. Hitting No, but if you do not agree, you must say whether you can work an alternative. If it is not my son I will not play there. Good luck!

Anonymous said...

Tell the mother not the children .. spank not worth it. Tell her that if she needs to punish her daughter to evil then they put in timeout! That's what my friends with my daughter and I told him I was. My daughter will not go into the house of another, and I think they can away with everything! Home will be respected and the rules that was the mine. So, my friend and I think the same thing on the farm, so there is no problem.

SuMmEr said...

Do not let your daughter play there if they are not able to be there too. I also want to meet her "friend" and ask him why he thought it was acceptable to spank your daughter.

mommy_2_... said...

You should talk to your friends to know what really happened ... have the truth of a 6YR years may be a little difficult. Tell him ... I beg you not to stay with his daughter. No need to lose a friend.

gonnawin said...

.... and I can honestly say that my child is 6 and knows right from wrong, and she knows it and he taught that if another child is something they know is wrong, and I know that to be something that not entitled to do so, then no one should go up, they have their own opinions and sees no need to do the other kids bad things connect. That said .... If my daughter with a babysitter (her uncles or grandparents) told them that their discipline, as they punished their own children ... which, of course, I would get one of those kids after all she is comfortable in her care. I can also say that if a child was any sand on my son, who helped us in the eye ... (I will not need to be able to say that cause harm, I hope that I wouldnt be) not only the child was punished with beatings, but not see the child, except that he is sure he has been taught at home, do no harm other children. You do not .. But ..... Spanking is my question is why --sn't learned not to hurt other people's children ... and also about how education does not follow the crowd?

Love my babies said...

Whether it's his "friend" who has no rigth spank your child, even a family member .. Perhaps that lesson was in good form yesterday, but the best thing for them to call again and explain the situation and know how to fix his own son .. I suggest that the situation in the other direction .. What he did, he did whip her daughter? I assume it was from his son .. Then lash angrily tell him I'm straight "is the first and last time that I get in contact or even my son," They did not allow any rigth their hands on the "just for a moment, your daughter about your house Just so many things can be solved .. Best wishes:)

sweetpea said...

I want to have to your friends, dates, playing at home, and I would certainly be your friend! I would be angry if someone teach my son to ... I would say you must tell the police ... She has no right to lay hands on the baby! How dare she ... Sure as hell would ensure that never happens again!

m&m's said...

To hdqts and a sign of the police complaint against them and take them to court.

Faith G said...

Wow! I think you need to talk to his friend, discover the side of the story. You need to have a conversation about their beliefs about discipline, and to your friends that you do in this situation prefer to explain. Because your daughter may never learn the rules of another house, so your friend knows that his system of discipline can be sure to spank your child again. If your friend does not do things the way I want to make other arrangements for after school and do play dates with Nadia at home.

kay s said...

ok I do not agree with the two-clicking / smacking children and id never touches another person (or my) child. disciplined in the interests of a stab in the back of the hand shows whos boss, and if my friend (especially in the've friends for so long) I do not think he can do damage. Can the health appear to have different views from me, everyione have different views. Assuming you're not convinced that the beating daughter of Ur, and develop their own rules of discipline among you, but to be fair to both sides. I hope this helped xx

La Belle Beure ♥ said...

If you know how she was about corporal punishment terrible time. However, when I was little, my friend slap mothers if they wanted to do something very bold (but never done, but I know that Teresa would be). My mother and she was (and is observed) exactly. It's like an aunt and my mother did not mind as much as I deserved.

jUiCy_... said...

You do not have any friends N / B and say that if you hit ur child will have problems

jUiCy_... said...

You do not have any friends N / B and say that if you hit ur child will have problems

Mommy of 2) said...

It's easy. I know it will be difficult to say, but do not tell him to spank your daughter and you do not smack their children. I just went through this same thing with my sister and my son. She taught him to play with the dishwasher while she was washing. It bothers me because I am out of my house to keep the jewelry and he knows it. I told him never to my child because my rules may be different from your rules, Spank, and if you make a mistake and should be taught and thats my job. Not that I whip anyway as an attempt to harm someone.

Gerta P said...

I think your friend has exactly the right thing, and her daughter deserved punishment. It would have been nice if his friend had him first, and perhaps one might say.

Gerta P said...

I think your friend has exactly the right thing, and her daughter deserved punishment. It would have been nice if his friend had him first, and perhaps one might say.

Jim said...

Attention to her daughter that the next time (if it decides a next time mother), Nadia ", he needs a spanking .... It can be assumed to return heat to the rear when he gets home!
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teach143 said...

if he knew for a moment, I would ask what happened. She feels comfortable like a second mother to agree to it and thought I would. not that it is correct if you do not agree. thats so you. but both disiplin state if the other was. As you can see all of them.

Donna said...

Or what makes me so angry.

I went to jail when the shit hit the night from a woman who left bruises on my daughter and her own daughter. (she was looking for me after a nursery school, the girls climbed on the roof of his car and grabbed her arm and pulled ... I flew on the handle)

I do not advise this, the cell was very smelly and the bathroom was in the open, where I had to urinate before other women 6

Anyway, no matter what happens, you should not allow his daughter back to play for more data.

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